New Year, New Choices, New Life
By Chris Jones, as told to Jenny Mertes
What’s a guy who had a
great childhood, a solid
upbringing, and
caring parents doing at
the Union Gospel Mission?
Well, today I’m a
fulltime employee working
as a carpenter in
maintenance, but that’s
not the whole story.
I made a lot of
choices that led me here
for the first time.
Like drinking all day,
every day, except when I
was at work. Keeping
a job wasn’t the problem;
staying sober was my
challenge. I got one
DUI after another, and I
spent some time in jail
because of my
choice to drink and
drive. I chose to keep on
drinking and being an
irresponsible parent
after my wife gave birth
to our daughter. My
wife made the same
choice, and we lost
little Kristen to CPS when
she was only two. I’ve
never seen her again.
Finally, in 2001
I chose to divorce my
wife, leave home, and
camp out in a tent. After
I made that choice to be
homeless, I got
too cold living outside,
and I wanted a warm place
to stay.
I was just
looking for a resting
point so I could get back
on my feet and find
another job. The Mission
had welcomed me in the
past for meals and
showers; now I needed a
bed. I didn’t even know
they had a rehab program
for people like me.
Thankfully, I got
into the Mission’s
program, and it helped
me, but I still thought
of it as just a
stepping-stone to get my
life going again. I even
accepted Christ and got
baptized in the
river, but I don’t think
I fully grasped what
Jesus had done and
will do for me.
So I made another
bad choice. I left the
Mission too soon,
before I was ready to be
on my own. That choice
left me open to a
lot of temptations, and I
fell hard. I started
drinking again, I got
sent back to jail, and
then I lived with a woman
for a year.
Everything I’d struggled
with before- the heavy
drinking, the
domestic disputes- it was
all happening again.
I had a tough
choice to make, but it
was the right one this
time. I went back to the
Mission, and I got
involved in the new
rehabilitation program. I
learned a lot about God’s
grace and truth
and what I had to do to
make a drastic
turnaround. By the time I
graduated from the
program, I was a
different person.
What was
different the second
time? My desires and my
thinking process changed.
My goals changed. I know
I’ll still have
bumps to get over, but I
also know I have another
way of dealing
with them: God and His
Word- my reference
manual. And this time, I’m
choosing to have the
fellowship and support of
other Christians that
I need to stay on track.
After graduation,
something surprising
happened. The right
choices I made led to a
new fulltime job, in the
Mission’s
maintenance department. I
love doing carpentry; it
makes me feel
specially connected to
Jesus. He’s everything to
me now, and He’s
the center of my life.
So as I head into
the new year, I truly
have a new life to
look forward to. I’m in a
healthy relationship with
a wonderful
woman. I’ve moved out of
the Mission’s
transitional housing and
into
a home of my own. I’ve
made a decision -a good
choice- to work here
and set a good example
for other guys in the
program. I feel like
I’m serving the Lord here
and letting Christ work
through me.
My dream is to
teach homeless men new
skills through our
internship program. I
want them to learn what I
know, following
Christ’s example: how to
build a solid life on a
strong foundation.
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