God’s Second Chances 123
Peter Brusati
Bible says that God causes all things to work together for good to
those who love him. (Romans 8:28) That even includes our failures!
Nobody likes to fail, but God can use failure to teach us valuable
lessons. If we respond in faith, God will use our defeats to lead us
to great victories. His goal is to build our character. The Bible says
that He is conforming us to the image of His Son. (Romans 8:29) I
can’t make myself like Jesus, but God can.
Peter is an excellent example of this. He confidently told Jesus,
“Even if I must die with you, I will not deny you!” (Matthew 26:35)
But Jesus knew that Peter was about to be tested in a way that would
cause him to fall. He said to him, “Simon, Simon, behold, Satan
demanded to have you, that he might sift you like wheat, but I have
prayed for you that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned
again, strengthen your brothers.” One reason God allowed Peter to be
severely tested was to show Peter that his good intentions were not
enough. Our failures show our weaknesses, but God’s goal is not to
humiliate us. He uses them to teach us to depend completely on His
strength.
The Apostle Paul had similar experiences. He said, “For we do not want
you to be unaware, brothers, of the affliction we experienced in Asia.
For we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired
of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of
death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who
raises the dead.” (2 Corinthians 1:9-10)
Denying Jesus shattered Peter’s illusions about himself. Luke’s
account of Peter’s denial shows us how painful it was: “And the Lord
turned and looked at Peter. And Peter remembered the saying of the
Lord, how he had said to him, ‘Before the rooster crows today, you
will deny me three times.’ And he went out and wept bitterly.” (Luke
22:61-62) After such vehement denials, I suspect that Peter thought
that he had disqualified himself from continuing as an apostle. Jesus
had told His disciples, “So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I
also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven, but whoever
denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in
heaven.” (Matthew 10:32-33)
But, as we know, that is not the end of the story. Jesus forgave Peter
and commissioned him to feed His flock. “He said to him the third
time, ‘Simon, son of John, do you love Me?’ Peter was grieved because
he said to him the third time, ‘Do you love Me?’ and he said to him,
‘Lord, you know everything; you know that I love You.’ Jesus said to
him, ‘Feed my sheep.’” (John 21:17)
Just a few weeks later, on the day of Pentecost, Peter, filled with
the Holy Spirit, was preaching the Word of God with boldness and
confronting the same people who had crucified Jesus. Peter had humbled
himself before the Lord, and God had lifted him up. In one of his
letters to the church, Peter tells us that “. . . you who are younger,
be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility
toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the
humble.’” (1 Peter 5:5) It has been said that the Holy Spirit only
fills the low places. As soon as we begin to think too highly of
ourselves, God has to pull back until we choose to take the low place.
We may need to fail in our own strength so that His grace can flow
through our lives once again.
Sometimes people tell me, “I have messed up too many times. God cannot
forgive me anymore.” I like to ask them, “Which of your sins did Jesus
not die for?” Of course, the answer is, “Since He died for all of
them, there aren’t any He didn’t die for.” Peter asked Jesus about the
limit on forgiveness when he said, “Lord, how often will my brother
sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” He
probably thought that was pretty generous. But Jesus said to him, “I
do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.” (Matthew
18:21-22) The idea is not that we count up to 490 and then stop
forgiving people, but that we continue to forgive no matter how often
a person hurts us. If God expects us to show that kind of forgiveness,
do you think He will put a limit on how many times He will forgive us?
No way! In fact, He clearly tells us, “Be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave
you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
Failure can be a glorious gateway to a new beginning, because God is
full of mercy. We just need to turn from our sins, turn to Him, and
trust in His promises. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and
just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9) Our transformation from sinner to saint
does not depend on us, but on God, who raises the dead!
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